Thursday, February 26, 2009

He’s Just Not That Into You

He’s Just Not That Into You Movie Quotes

Don't be flattered that he misses you. He should miss you. You're deeply missable. However, he's still the same person who just broke up with you. Remember, the only reason he can miss you is because he's choosing, every day, not to be with you.

I don't want to be "sort of dating" someone. I don't want to be "kinda hanging out" with someone. I don't want to spend a lot of energy suppressing my feelings so I appear uninvolved. I want to be involved. I want to be sleeping with someone I know I'll see again because they've already demonstarted to me that they're trustworthy and honorable -- and into me.

Everyone wants to be loved and needed, particularly by the person who just broke up with us. I understand. What could be better than hearing from the man who just told you he didn't want you in his life anymore ... his sad, wistful, "I miss you so much" voice on the other end of the phone? It's validating. It's exciting. It's irresistible. But resist you must.

A man who wants to make a relationship work will move mountains to keep the woman he loves. If he's not calling you to tell you he loves you and wants you back, it should only be because he's showing up at your new residence to do it in person ... if he's not doing any of that, he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he's just not that into you. Stop taking his calls and let him know what it's like to live without you.

It's very tempting when you really want to be with someone to settle for much, much less -- even a vague pathetic facsimile of less -- than you would have ever imagined. Remember always what you set out to get and please don't settle for less. These guys exist because there are a lot of women out there who allow them to.

Deciding to get back together with someone is a complicated and difficult decision. Just remember that the person you are getting back together with is the same person who, not long before, looked you in your beautiful face, took full stock of you and all your qualities, and told you that he was no longer in need of your company.

Breakups, I've heard, are supposed to be just that. Breaks. Hard, clean breaks. No talking, no seeing, no touching ... keep your hands to yourself. The relationship is over. Half the people I know move after a huge breakup, and frankly that makes perfect sense to me. You're not supposed to sleep with the guy who just broke your heart a week ago. Fine. Next time I'm in this situation I'll cry. Stay in bed and wail. Go to the gym if I can. Call all my friends and burden them with my misery. Sleep too much. Cry some more. See my therapist more often. Get a puppy. Do whatever I have to so eventually I can move on.

There's a guy out there who's going to be really happy that you didn't get back together with your crappy ex-boyfriend.

Don't give him the chance to reject you again.

“A girl will never forget the first boy she ever likes.” .”

“We are all programmed to believe that if a guy acts like a total jerk that means he likes you.”

“If a guy treats you like he doesn’t give a s— it’s because he doesn’t give a s—.”

“An excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid of “ruining the friendship.”

Don’t get tricked into asking him out. If he likes you, he’ll do the asking.”

If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will.”

I just need you to stop being nice to me unless you gonna marry me.”

“What if you meet the love of your life? Are you suppose to let that pass you by?”

nkuha ko to ke jaymie tan...hahahaha... mapanuod nga... mabsa nrin.. meron bng buk nito?

Sunday, February 15, 2009


woah... after so many days ngayon lng ulet ako nkpagpost... (haha..parang ilang araw lng nmn...) ngayon lng din ulet ako nkpag-onlyn sa friendster, multiply, and face book...kea mdaming post update n ung nlagpasan ko... ang dami ko nding mail alert sa email ko...

kmusta ako?well, i'm not ok... ndi dhil sa ♥life...kundi dhil sa may cold war kme ng mga kpatid ko...take note..."mga"... yeah rayt... cla bajhing and nancy... my two closest siblings... ang panget sa pkiramdam... they didn't tell me directly kung bkit cla cold, but i think i knew why...and i don't have plans of telling you guys why...hehehe... super pangit sa pkiramdam... last nyt, during the 7:30 mass, habang binabasa ung gospel, i cried discreetly... hndi ko alm kung anu ung ngtrigger pra tumulo ung luha ko, bsta i just felt that something is aching inside of me... super tlga ung feeling n un...knowing that my siosters were there also inside the church attending the mass... hndi ko man lng cla nkita during the "peace be with you" part... sa bhay mas malala... i don't speak to them, they don't speak to me...pag may sasabihin cla kay tita nila pinapasabe... pag nasa baba ako, and they're also there, sinasaksak ko ung earphones ko... huhuhu... feeling outkast ako sa bhay... naiinggit nga ako pag tumatawa cla eh... kxe before, we do really laugh out loud over funny and crazy things together...grrr... i hate it!!! but i don't hate them really... dunno... i just cudn't hate them for hating me... *OMG! naiiyak tlaga ako...hehehe pero uko umiyak, kce exposed ako kila mama...* haiz, i don't know kung hnggang kelan ko matitiis ung mga gnung moments...


Wednesday, February 11, 2009

i'm done

finally!!! hehehe...OMG!!! at last ntapos ko din ung charity work ko for my frend oday... (echos lng...hndi ung charity...mei byad un..) hahaha... grabe... hndi knaya ng powers ko ung mga nkasulat sa libro ng mga soon to be " engineers" kong frend... kmusta nmn kya kung un ung pinursue kong course noh?!? hahaha anu keang ngyari sken? but anyweiz, okei na eh...hahaha... ngbibilang nlng ako ng araw... *ampanget!?! parang mamamatay* aion, bsta...ngccountdown nkikita ko na ang sarili ko sa loob ng isang malaking hall...yipeee!!!

hai...auko maspoil ung mga gnung moments ko... hehehe... tama na... *mei gnun?!*

~~~~i really love what i'm doing here... hai...buti nlng nkahanap ako ng niche s cyberspace... ang saya-saya! it really feels good wen i'm able to express how i feel irregardless of what i'm feeling... whether i'm happy or sad... i don't care if i make sense or not... all that matters to me is that i write and i write whatever's on my mind till i get tired... =') pero xempre masay din nmn kung may mag-cocompliment sa mga pinagagagawa mo db?

i do believe in the thoery of relativity... what may be right for me may be wrong for you and vice versa... pwedeng para sken maganda ako tas sa iba, ako ang pinakamaganda!!! hahaha... *u cannot make angal...i'm in control of the keyboard=')* hahaha.... pwedeng ung masaya para sknya eh malungkot para really depend on how you view things in your own perspective...
so pwede rin kya na meron tayong kanya-kanyang realidad? gets mu ba??? kung pagbabasehan ang teoryang ito eh di hndi nting matatawag na baliw ung mga taong cnasabi nting ng-"hahallucinate"... at hndi rin tayo pwedeng manghusga ng kung ano ang tama at kung ano ang mali??? hahaha.... tae... anu daw??? pati ako nguluhan tuloi...ang gulo tuloy ng utak ko...hehehe...

~~~madalas kesa sa hndi, ginagawa kong kumplikado ang mga bagy-bgay khit na hndi nmn dpat...ung iniicp kong solusyon sa problema, kung minsan sobrang malayo tlaga...kea imbis na maayos, lalo tuloy gumugulo ang sitwasyon... ilang beses ng ngyari un sken eh...hahaha... ang nkakainis dun, alam ko n nga n ako ang ngpapakumplikado sa sitwsyon, pinagpapatuloy ko pden...para bang un lng ang alam kong gawin... kelan ko kaya mararanasan n gwing simple lng ang lhat ng npakakumplikadong bagay para sken?.... wish ku lang...

~~~~ayan...mejo maluwag n ung utak ko..hahaha...wala nkong msabe eh... gusto ko ng mabsa ung new moon hnggang breaking dawn!!!! anyone hu has a gud heart? pls lend me ur twilight saga books.... i'm pleading u!!!! hahahaa... i'm just a poor gal who cannot afford to buy the precious books i wanted to read... hnggang hiram lang ako eh...

nyt everyone!!! swit drimz!!!

God bless!!!

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

recollection: february four two thousand and nine


earlier this day, our class had a recollection held at the school multi-purpose was supposed to start at 8 am...i arrived 9 am...i was late! grrr... sayang... yeah...i really don't find recollections as a corny event...i'm actually excited about it...i sat at the back with rj, menchie and brion... it was kinda noisy.... ang ingay ng mga classmates ko...ang aga-aga restless na cla..hahaha.... when i looked at the person speaking in front, i recognized that he was the same guy who facilitated our recollection way back 2007, when we were second year....that was held in San Carlos Seminary at Guadalupe, Makati City... aun...geh balik na tayo sa present... hehehe... pinalipat kme ni Sir joel sa hrap...nauna akong lumipat....then menchie followed.... we sat on the second row...then a woman stood in front and told everybody sitting at the back to transfer in the vacant at the front row... good thing that they followed her...hehehe.... nung una mejo attentive to unattentive ung status ko...hahaha... sorry po! tska c mench, ang daldal! hahaha.... interesting nmn ung talk eh.... (i forgot to mention the name of the facilitators...hehehe.... there were two of them...kuya joel and ate malou) kudos to you peple!

aun... i wud just like to share some of the few words of wisdom na shinare din nila smen knina...^^tnx to menchie and brion for the notebook and pen n binigay nila sken nung bday ko!hehehe.... tnx also to karla for lending me her colored pens....luvyah kulluh!

" you can never be sure....:'(" ---ate malou

kung anong ka ngayon yan ay dahil sa kung ano ung mga gnwa mo can blame no one but yourself!

we are called to exist!

respect begets respect..

the antidote to our every FEAR is our STRONG FAITH in God!

LET GO!!!!

will you stay or go...?

life is so short!:'(

relate with others... bridge the gap...

" less prayer, less blessing... no prayer, no blessing... no God, no Life..."

use your heart instead of your mind...

sbe ni ate malou eto ung meaning ng humility....
humility is the knowledge of who God is and the complete acknoledgement of who we really are

hndi daw totoo na time heals....

We have the capacity to change and bring change because we are God's children....

act consciously!!! BE AWARE!!!!

~~~~ change is a is constant.... curiosity leads to change.....CHANGE FOR THE BETTER!!!! CHRIST completes the CHANGE!!!!.....

where our reason ends, FAITH begins...

~~~~~ basically, umikot ung recollection nmen tungkol sa pgging ready nmen sumabak sa mundo sa labas ng paaralan... kung matatag ba ang relasxon nmn sa mga mhal nmn sa mga tao sa pligid mga taong hndi nmn relasyong nmn kay God at kung anu2 pa...

i really had a great day today.... after the talk....ngkaroon ng reconciliation/ hugging moments ang buong class ng BSN IV-6...hehehe... yes, i hugged them al...except for the few yata n busy rin hugging our other classmates... i reconciled with chai... yeah.. that's for real... hai... who wud want to keep her grudges...not me of course...bsta masaya... andme nga ding food eh...parang puro kaen lng ung ngwa nmen knina... hahaha...andame kong nkaen na taba!!!! yummy! aion...

after the recollection, mench and i went to the mall of asia... ngpasama kxe xa sken bumili ng toot-toot...hahahaha... it was fun!!!! ng-camwhoring lng kme sa loob ng fitting room....nyahahaha... we tried on the dresses we liked... hay...i really love those dresses that we had tried on... hai... para kmeng mga shopaholic kuno sa gnwa nmen!!! FUN! FUN! FUN! tlga...

i'l not go into the details nrin kce, meron pkong ggawen eh... un lng for this day....

God bless!!!!